Self-Pity

“Being a victim is more palatable than having to recognize the intrinsic contradictions of one’s own governing philosophy.” — Tom Clancy, The Hunt for Red October “Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical…

Rage and Entitlement in Borderline Personality Disorder

In working with people who suffer from borderline personality disorder, you may often feel deeply hostile toward your clients; you need to use that feeling to understand their murderous rage, their inability to tolerate frustrate and their desire to take over and possess you.